Welcome to the 5th and final day of the
challenge.
My goal today is to give you some last
tools you might need to accomplish any desire easily and effortlessly..
As always, if you have any questions at
all, or need help applying these principles to your own situation, please ask
them in the comment box below
Resistance
Is Important, But Not That Important
I told you on day 1 that the moment you
conceived of your desire, that it was already done—created instantly.
And I told you that the rest of the process is really about the
resistance.
In fact, I tell every client to expect an
uptick in resistance after working with me, because as you move more energy in
regards to your desire, it’s natural that resistance will come up, too.
But, I want to temper that a little. What I
said is correct, but people may interpret it in ways that I did not intend.
There are some schools of thought in the
LOA that encourage you to uncover and release every last bit of resistance.
People will dig deep into their subconscious, trying to uncover every limiting
belief they could possibly have about their desire.
But how do you think it feels when you are
doing this? For some, it can seem enlightening, but they’re usually not feeling
very good while reliving all these beliefs.
This is all totally unnecessary, and in
fact can be extremely harmful to your manifestation.
Feeling the negative
emotions triggered by your limiting beliefs will only attract more
negativity—such is the nature of the law of attraction.
So I encourage you to take more of a balanced approach.
When I say that resistance will come up,
I’m telling you to deal with whatever happens to come up in the moment.
However, don’t go looking for
resistance to release. This is extremely counterproductive.
But you might ask, “What about the limiting
beliefs?” For instance, if you have a limiting belief that money is hard to
earn, don’t you have to remove that belief in order for you to receive more
money?
To answer this question, I need to explain
about active or inactive thoughts.
Is
Your Resistance Active?
What exactly is a belief?
A belief is just a habit of thinking. In
other words, it is a thought that you thought, over and over again, until it
became habitual.
But the thing about thoughts is that they can either be active
or inactive.
A particular thought, or belief, can go for
years without ever being activated, and so it won’t affect your manifestations.
Many people believe that the world is a
reflection of all of
your thoughts and beliefs.
But this simply isn’t true.
I’m sure that you understand this now that
you’ve read our book “Your Greatest Enemy”
This is why someone may be very comfortable
financially for a long time, and one day something happens and all of a sudden,
they start having money troubles.
It may be because they quit their job,
tried to start their own business, aimed for a promotion, started a family,
etc.
In the new situation, they had habits of
thinking that weren’t conducive to financial abundance.
In other words their limbic brain started playing havoc with
their “inner world”
For example, it is quite common that someone
could be quite well-off, and then they quit to start a business, and suddenly
they struggle to get clients in order to make money.
They likely had beliefs about the
feasibility of making money as an entrepreneur, but as long as they were in a
stable job, this belief wasn’t activated, and therefore it did not create in
their reality.
If you ever find anything like this
happening in your life, where things are going quite well, and then suddenly
change for the worse, look for the belief that was activated, which was dormant
before that point.
Just become aware of “Enemy – Friend” modus operandi.
So, you don’t need to go through and dig up
every piece of resistance you’ve ever had.
In fact, this would be rather harmful,
because the only way to discover some piece of resistance, is to activate it,
and if you activate some dormant limiting belief, then your reality will reflect that.
The resistance you must release will come
to you. You do not need to go looking for it.
And it is not harmful to leave inactive resistance
be, because, in time, those dormant beliefs, as you raise your vibration, will
just melt away.
If that does not make sense reread the chapter
on “Neuroplasticity” in your book “Your greatest Enemy”
Don’t
Effort
Yes, off course you have to apply the FEED system (Your book “Your Greatest Enemy”).
But after the effort comes the effortlessness. Remember!
So that means, if some bit of resistance is
giving you a lot of trouble, you don’t have to pin it down until you have
worked through it. That is just way too much effort.
No, if you find yourself stuck in some resistance, just get your
“brain” off of it.
I mean totally off of it, not where you’re
ignoring it but it’s still in the background.
Do what you have to do to totally get out
of the grasp of the resistance, then just don’t worry about it.
Next time you return to the goal, that
resistance will probably be smaller, because you didn’t pay attention to it.
The only thing that dictates your future manifestations is your
current vibration.
It doesn’t matter what resistance may be
lying dormant, or what limiting beliefs you may still hold. As long as you are
feeling good, in this moment, you are creating a positive future for yourself.
So totally forget about whatever you’ve
created in the past. Totally forget about any resistance that bothered you
previously.
Just genuinely, authentically feel good
now, whether focusing on your goal or not, and things will move in a desirable
direction for you.
Instead of trying to remove those old ways
of thinking, then, just actively build new ways of thinking. Instead of trying
to release that belief that money is hard to earn, start finding reasons to
believe that money is abundant and easy to have massive amounts of.
I highly recommend my book “Rewire your Brain” for more information
on the “how to” of that.
The less you give focus to those old ways
of thinking, the more they will just melt away.
What
to Expect
By now you should have the basic tools you
need to create anything. There is, of course, lots more I could say, but I
included as much as I could into this basic introduction, to help you start
manifesting quickly
.
As you start applying these principles, you
will notice your entire life start to change. Things will get easier. Random good
things will start happening to you. You will begin to feel like you are the
luckiest person in the world.
Good things will start happening to you,
which you never even consciously asked for. The Universe will start to
anticipate your desires, and so really the idea of manifestation will go out
the window.
Not to say you can’t still be deliberate
about a goal, but this will be a smaller part of your practice. You will just
find more and more ways to feel good every day, and the Universe will bring you
more and more things to prove that to you.
Resistance will always come up, but you’ll
appreciate these moments as the jumping off point for greater desires, and so
they won’t bother you much
All you have to do is to apply the
principles I have taught this week, and as I mentioned yesterday, always lead
with your emotions.
Homework
for Day 5
Well, the homework after today is simply to
put all this into effect. Go back through the 5 days if you need to, to bring
all this together. Ask me questions in the comments below or email me ockert@icon.co.za until you have a complete
understanding of how all of this works
If you need personal assistance don’t hesitate
to enquire about our coaching sessions
Find more and more reasons to feel good in
your day-to-day life. Find ways to build new habits of thought, and ignore the
old ones. Be easy about the whole process, and don’t feel as though you need to
struggle with your resistance.
And finally, persist until you have
achieved your goal, and then set a new goal and do it all over again.
After all, why would you ever stop? These
principles can and will do a lot more than just bringing your goals to you.
They will improve your entire life, as long as you keep practicing them.
What’s Next?
As I said, we have just scratched the
surface of all this.
I have far more specific techniques for
dealing with resistance, and for working towards your goals.
This challenge will act as an introduction
to those more advanced principles.
We will be launching our membership site next
year where a lot of tools will be available for you create your life by design,
effortlessly
I will send you an email with more detail
on the membership site, and I’ll let you know how you can get a special
discount for joining the membership site, just for being a part of this
challenge.
Until then, I wish you the best of luck
with all your goals!
Go for it, finish the challenge and be
sure to celebrate your victory!
Love and
respect
Coach Ockert
